The ring on your finger signifies that deep, emotional and unbreakable bond. You can't look at your ring finger without breaking out into a big, warm smile. You constantly tell anyone within fifty feet of you about the one sweet day you and the hubby first met. It has gotten to the point where I can tell the unforgettable story better than you can. That's love. I see it in your eyes. Say what? His pipe game is hellified too? Damn babygirl, I see why you can't stop smiling.
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So you finally settled down, my brother. After all the women you've been associated with, you don't have to tell me how she has to be The One. I know she is that deal. Smart, sophisticated, sexy with the cooking ability to throw down in the kitchen like it aint nobody's business. You did the right thing in marrying her. You can't let her get away. They don't make women like her anymore. She is the reason you burned your little black book? I feel you. What do I think about her? Listen, I've known you damn near your entire life. I can honestly say she has made you a better person. I knew that when you joined church.
Say what? When her beauty fades, the love you have for her will continue to last forever? Damn, you even got quotes now? Oh, you are definitely in love. Just between me and you, what exactly did she do? I have never seen you act quite like this before. You sure that women didn't piss in your food and hoodoo you? I'm just f'ing with you, bruh. I'm happy for you. Make it last forever.
But let me ask the both of you this one question...what if your better half was offered $1,000,000 to spend the night with a complete stranger?
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I'm actually married and have joked around with my husband about this question. I must say, it would be worth exploring. The bottom line is that people cheat for free and their better half stays...why not get paid for it!? Of course I'm only kidding...I think! LOL!!
Well, I think I would have to pass. I don't like to share my toys and would be livid at the mere thought of some other woman pleasing my man.
Men have meaningless sex all the time. They don't get all emotionally connected, so would I sell a night with my spouse for a cool mill?? Ummmmm. Yup. Because men have a good understanding of "that over there" and "this right here," so I'd never even consider that my position in his heart is compromised just because he crawled between some chick's legs for a $1 million. But would I do the do? Nah. My man's ego would never recover and the cash wouldn't be worth having to hear "So was the nigga better than me?" for the rest of my life...
a million what? he betta get his ass in there and pump hard as hell. if he need me to tweak him to get up and going i will be there on the sideline hollering, "Go baby Go!!! Harder, Faster, A lil More To The Left!!!!
SBC if he asked me was the dude better I would say nawl but his money was. LOL He'll get over it eventually, if not, then I would have a cool mill to just do me
I would leave the decision to him. If he wants to go against the commitment we made before God for money that God can provide for us a more honest way, then let him. That's between him and God.
Nope, I don't think so. I wouldn't do it. And I damn sure wouldn't give my permission for him to do it.
Gwyneth
Shyyyyt...I'd be right there like Don King hypin Tyson up right before a fight wit Hollifield!
*takes his robe off for him, rubs shoulders...ok baby, you can do this, you hear me? You.Can.Do.This! Now get in there & blow her damn back out*
Waitin on a cool mill to come your way legitimatly sounds good in theory, but it sure as hell aint as easy as it sounds. Get dat money, go home, and make plans to better your life together.
I mean really, the usual problem with cheating is that there are lies & deciept that come along with it. In this case...no lies...no deception...all cards laid out on the table.
Pass up a mill cause I don't want to share my man for 1/2 hour (lets keep it real...it aint gone take much longer than that)...I dont think so!
this probably ain't the right time for me to answer that question cuz i'm like "let him fuck her". if he want it, get it. i ain't gonna stop him.
now in a few years my answer would probably be different because i won't be so cynical about that whole "love" shit.
but that's down the road. for right now, i'd tell dude to fuck her brains out and make sure i get my half.
No...simple as that. That sacred bond is broken and no amount of money is worth losing it.
Slap a condom on him and he can go at it...
LOL
Nope, I wouldn't allow it...
You never know what can happen, ya know--
I don't trust a thang!!
Depends on what she looks like.
If she looked like Rosie O'Donell then sure. If she looked like Charlize Theron then hell NO!
Now if it were I who had to do the deed then bring him on. I'd show him a good time for a million bucks.
Would that make me a prostitute?
Gosh I feel cheap now.
Leave it to you to come up with potential mind benders. My perspective (from the outside looking in) is that it depends on how each feels about the institution of marriage/depth of love for spouse versus the almighty dollar.
What I'm sayin' is money oriented folk may justify making the grab sayin' we'll be aiight AND paid, so we can get that house, car, debt free status, kid's college etc.
Marriage/love folk would lean toward a little word called SANCTITY, placing no value above it.
I would like to think that my soul is not for sale...neither would my would be wife.
Puts me in mind of massa being amuzed (mildly) about how high he can get a dog to jump by dangling a scrap of fat from his plate.
We already been slaves...
Pride is all some of us have. Put up for sale your best and last for Warbucks to urinate on because he can?
O HELL NAWL!
im feeling ticia on this one.
i dont trust ISH!!
what if that ho' gets sprung on MY d*ck??!?!?
THEN!! We have a problem..cuz I'M sprung.
UH UH..THATS ALL ME RIGHT THERE PLAYA..HELLL NAH!!
I’m down! Wear a condom and make that money baby!
Actually, I’ve never been married, so I wouldn’t know per say…
absolutely not. end of discussion.
i just asked bf and he said never. but he's not really into having a lot of money so i expected him to say that.
would you don?
He wouldn't and I wouldn't.
SHYT DAMMIT HELL! HELL TO THE NAW, NO SIR, NOT NEVER....I CONCUR W/ MS LADY.
@ brown girl: lol. That would be something to think about, wouldn't it?
@ queen: I feel you.
@ SBC: You make a good point. A great point. I'm sure your hubby wouldn't recover from it.
@ lea: stop playing. You know you wouldn't give your man the OK to develop something with another woman. You play too much.
@ jewells: I expected your answer to be exactly as it was. To the Tee.
@ gwyneth: I feel you.
@ kiki: you also make a great point about everything being out on the table. 20 minutes? Stop telling your man's business. lol.
@ nikki: I would have given the same answer before '05, but now that I have seen what I saw...I would place a greater value on the marriage.
@ sheila: and once that bond is broken, best believe it's broken.
@ blah: lmao.
@ ticia: look at Ticia, always thinking two steps ahead of time. Ol' educated asz nikka. lol.
@ gina: I never thought of it that away. Depends on what the person looks like. Makes sense.
@ sojourner: let's go deeper. After reading your comment, I feel pissed about anyone asking me. And I'm not even married. lol. Great point about selling the soul, G.
@ ms. lady: After watching a few of your blog videos last night, and hearing how you are so compassionate concerning certain issues...I would expect this answer.
@ msP: lol @ make that money baby.
@ muze: under no circumstances would I give the go ahead to a woman who I have a marriage bond with to sleep with someone who has a million dollars to throw away. I don't think the woman would be coming back anyways.
@ prettyblack: point blank, end of discussion.
@ ushana: Oh, I already know what you were going to say. lol.
You think you know me, Don, huh???
I know one thing...it sure beats da hell outta him cheatin' for free.
[**Handin' the hubby his overnite bag and practically shovin' him out the front door**]
Do your thang baby...don't be scurred!! :-)
He better say no if he knows whats good for his ass lol... well thats what i'll say if i had a dude.... I'mma be rich y would he need that for? lol..
when I was married my husband asked me if i would do it and i told him no and meant it. It was a huge ego boost for me, but it had nothing to do with him. I felt that I would be nothing more than a prostitute and he in some ways, my pimp for letting me do something like that. While having $1 mil would be nice, my self-worth and integrity is priceless.
I wouldn't want my husband helling himself out for the money either.
Hold on a minute. Let me ask my lady " Babe what if some random chick said she would give you a million dollars to sleep with me " My lady looks at me kind puzzled and responds" No..Now if she had said 2 million I might have to reconsider. Come to bed and give some of that 2 million dollar Long Stroke"
Damn Don... now why you had to do that... after all that good romantic feel good writing you had to pose that question at the end... well I say any fool would be an idiot not to take take that money and the women would be even more stupid for not understanding if her man did cheat on her for doing it. Its for the betterment of the family... I think cheating is more of a mental thing anyway than a physical thing. People cheat to fill a void for what they are lacking in their companion. In this case he is content and him cheating will not consists of any emotional feelings like he would if it were because of some instability in our marriage.
going private for a minute so shoot me an e-mail at softballinsac@comcast.net
Ok...so after reading Soj's comment (who told you to be comin up in here gettin all deep, anyway?), I re-thought my answer...and it still hasn't changed. I think the difference in answers to this question stems from the individuals experience with relationships & "cheating".
If I weren't so jaded when it comes to love & "do right" men, I probably would've said no right along with everybody else. But since I honestly do not believe men have it in them to be faithful (not meant to offend), I'd rather know about the cheating & profit it from it then be one of these silly broads runnin around talkin bout my man looove me, while he screwin Mary, Sally, and Sue for free & not getin a damn thing out of it except maybe a disease.
And oh yeah...cosigning Eb!
@Kiki-Now you know you know better! What you gone look like explaining it to God with dolla bills hangin' outcho behind?
See that's why I wrote what I wrote. It ultimately isn't about cheatin, relationships, or getting paid at all. It's about dignity, self respect and love of self AS WELL as doing what is right. Cheatin' and right and cheatin' for money or because you been cheated ain't right either. And even if you roll back with, "If we agree it ain't cheatin'," in the grand scheme of things, you still cheatin' yourself.
"For what is a man profited if he shall gain the whole world, and lose his own soul?" Matt 16:26
I know you know.
Luh you!
absolutely. I'd do it.
Have you seen gas prices man?
but seriouslyit depends on the person. I aint bout to send my wife off with will smif or johnny depp.. her azz aint coming back home.
*hangs head in shame*
Yeah...I do know better, Soj! Unfortunately, experience has made me less trust-worthy & more cynical when it comes to relationships (remember...being broken beyond repair). I'm working on it, though.
Luh ya, too!
Hmm....well, 'tis her choice only she won't have the pleasure of having the two.
@ jewells: i think i know all that you show me. sup?
@ ms behaving: yeah, it does beat cheating for free. i agree with you on that.
@ koffee dyme: lol. if he knows what is good for him he'd better say no. do men knows what are good for them? that's the question. love the blog look you gave ebonne.
@ slish: lolololololololol.
@ ebonne: are you saying that because of the amount of money offered? would you allow your husband to cheat for, lets say, $100 dollars?
@ kiki: oh, so you re-thought your answer and it still didn't change? lol. you are fo' sho about your thoughts when it comes to men being dogs, i see. jaded, me too i do believe.
@ sojourner: you are the truth. you back up everything you speak from your mouth with great substance. not that others don't do the same. but you do it in a more spiritual sense. you are a master.
@ slaus: nah. your wife would definitely miss your great sense of humor. i don't think your wife would leave you, bruh. you are safe.
@ kiki: i am willing to bet that sooner or later someone is going to enter your life and change your p.o.v. will you be skeptical, or reciprocate his feelings? i ask, because i ponder the same question myself.
@ rethots: good point.
Damn skinnyBlack hit that mufuckin nail on the head.
wouldn't do it
think i can make a million without having somebody molest my wife
@ ladyshay: yep
@ james tubman: lol
Dag it I'm late, I've been out of the loop for a minute. ANYWAYS, the answer is no. I've experienced love and I have had the love experience. Make sense ;) The love experience has no price tag and I would bet over half of the people who would do it, still wouldn't find happiness in all that money. I'll take true love first any day. CUZ it’s like a perfect verse over a tight beat. Ya dig!
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